Social grace means that a person knows how to \u201cwork the room\u201d and make others feel comfortable. If you’ve ever been in a situation where everyone was on their phones or mumbling among themselves, then you know how important social grace is for good interactions.<\/p>\n
But it’s even more important for nerds because they are often shy and unconfident around other people, so they need a girl to help them break the ice and put them at ease.<\/p>\n
In fact, it’s significantly more important to nerdy guys because most can’t find a girl who truly understands and empathizes with all their issues.<\/p>\n
They might feel alienated because they are bad at sports or don’t like watching reality TV shows. They could be discouraged by academic struggles, social criticism, and bullying.<\/p>\n
Support helps them keep going through the hard times so that they can pursue their interests instead of giving anything up or feeling ashamed.<\/p>\n
Even if they like a girl, they may feel too intimidated to strike up a conversation, ask for your number, or go for a kiss.<\/p>\n
This trait is simple: nerdy guys like it when a girl asks them out and makes the first move instead of waiting around for him to take action. If you wait for a nerd to make the first move, you may end up waiting forever.<\/p>\n
Charming means that a person makes them feel special. If you are able to make someone else feel good about themselves, then you are charming.<\/p>\n
Nerdy guys are often insecure because they don’t have many friends or feel socially inept, so they appreciate it when a girl can charm the pants off anyone in the room. Wit is a close cousin.<\/p>\n
Nerdy guys like girls with a good sense of humor because they need someone who can laugh at their shortcomings and not take life itself too seriously.<\/p>\n
If you are the kind of girl that has high standards for what she finds funny, then nerdy guys will love you even more. Intelligent humor is often a huge turn-on to nerdy guys.<\/p>\n
They value individuality and self-expression, so they like girls with similar passions who don’t feel the need to always fit the mold.<\/p>\n
Superficial means that a person looks at the surface and can’t see past appearances to discern who someone truly is deep inside. This is one of the key traits that nerds despise.<\/p>\n
To nerdy guys, a girl who doesn’t put much stock into appearances, social media, or \u201cvanity metrics\u201d like followers is a breath of fresh air.<\/p>\n